Oris Erhuero

Interview by Toluwani Praise Akhaehomen

Produced by Marion Amanambu

Biography

Oris Erhuero (born September 23, 1968) is a British actor, producer, writer, and former fashion model. He is highly acclaimed for being the most photographed and publicized, international fashion runway and print model of his time era. After modeling for several years, he transitioned into television and film, with roles in The Adventures of Sinbad, The Bill, Highlander: Endgame, Black Mask 2, Sometimes in April, and Chicago Pulaski Jones. Erhuero continues to utilize his innumerable talents by embarking on film production and screen writing.

Erhuero has a daughter and was named Father of the Year in 2004 by the National Fatherhood Initiative at the Golden Dads Awards. In 2007, Jamati Online named Erhuero one of the top 10 sexiest African men. Erhuero strives for world peace in his daily practice and is often involved in numerous local and global charity organizations.



Toluwanimi: How would you introduce yourself to people who do not know you? Who is Oris Erhuero?
Oris: Wow! (sighs and pauses) well….I am an artiste, a poet, a philosopher, ….someone who’s been around, someone who’s goal is to help and inspire the next generation. I have been very fortunate to be around a lot of circumstances and I am still growing – in my life and my career and within myself. We get better at things, and I hope never to find myself repeating myself, because when you do that you are not growing.


Toluwani: So what you are saying is that you’re constantly evolving and redefining yourself?
Oris: Yes


Toluwani: Right, Can you tell me specific ways that you have redefined yourself in the last year?
Oris: I have grown spiritually, mentally, and career-wise, I decided to take responsibility by starting my own film company. And that is through my many experiences over the years and growing in the business. I finally put my feet down and decided to start my own company and resurrect my projects rather than sit around and wait for the next big thing. I realised that the next big thing happens everyday and if you sit around waiting for it, you’ll end up losing out. I stepped into the arena, and can now say I have a company with a vision to take responsibility for telling the stories of my continent, Africa, on a grand scale. That grand scale could be anything from 50 pounds to a billion pounds, or whichever way you choose to define that. I’m in that place where I am willing to help the next generation, to show them, to teach them, and if I don’t know then to ask questions from other people with more experience to say, “hey, how do we make this work”? I would have to say that it is how I have evolved this last year. Also, my work has evolved to become a lot stronger.

Toluwanimi: So you’re very happy about where you’re at, really.
Oris: Yes. But I will not say that I am content. My idea of contentment is to say that I am in that place where I can get knocked down but not shaken. That is my idea of being content. Yes, I am content, meaning that I am enjoying the battle. But there is still room for more; I am not satisfied yet. No on will ever be satisfied. Being satisfied is a myth. It’s a myth – no one will ever be satisfied. It’s like a woman who goes to the salon to get her hair done in a certain way but is still not quite happy about it. That is the way we human beings are. We will never be satisfied and we need to embrace that as part of human nature! You can never say that you’ve done your best work. You can’t say these things; it’s for people to say them about you after you leave the world. So for me, it’s hard to digest it when someone says, “I have done my best work”. It’s for others to say that about you when they come to your funeral, until then, do your best!

Toluwanimi: I’m curious. Your name is really Oresiri, not Oris. I read that a photographer friend gave you that name.

Oris::Yes

Toluwanimi: So what is the meaning of Oresiri?

Oris: In the Urhobo dialect of Nigeria, Oresiri means "God’s time is the best" and that’s very interesting because my that’s the story of my life.

Toluwanimi: So that name has meaning for you?

Oris: Oh yes! As I get older, I realise that the names our parents give us….we may find them very….. (pauses). Why in the world did my dad give me such a name? But the reality is that it came out of passion when they made love. As a kid, I never liked the name but as I grew older, I began to appreciate it because people started to ask me questions about my real name. When I tell them that it is Oresiri and tell them the meaning, tears slide down their faces, and I am not trying to sound dramatic here. Then they change from calling me Oris to calling me Oresiri. More often than not, these people go on to become close friends, and I am talking about people from different countries and cultures. Oris is just a stage name and funny enough, the name Oris is the name of the Egyptian sun god and its meaning has to do with the times (laughs).

Toluwanimi: Really, so it’s like a coincidence but not really

Oris: No, not really. 

Toluwanimi: so tell me, what are your likes, the things you enjoy doing?

Oris: I enjoy meeting different people from different walks of life. I enjoy investigating and finding out more about how human beings can make a difference, and that passion has really come with my philosophy as a Nichiren Daishonin practitioner. I have really enjoyed that because that solid foundation has really helped me to go deeper within myself, to enjoy my newly found discovery, to see the light and to enjoy the works of other people.

Toluwanimi: ….and is this a kind of religion or…….?

Oris: It is a sect of Buddhism of which I am a part. It’s a part of the SGI Organisation. We don’t like to consider it a religion. Religion is a sensitive word these days, and religion itself can be very cultish, so I like to be very careful with that. However, for me, it’s something that is very fulfilling, and as a philosophy, it gives me that “kick” because it came with many years of me investigating different forms of religion…..

Toluwanimi: …….So you kind of found yourself in that?

Oris: Yes, I found myself in that through my work. It’s given me a purpose to appreciate one of the things I like – Art. I love art and I’ve started to love the continent of Africa all over again. That philosophy has helped me to go deeper and I have enjoyed wanting to face reality, to take responsibility instead of complaining about this and that. I am also enjoying trying to find myself around people who also want to make a difference, even if it’s for one person. And just finding ways to define and be the most incredible person that I can be to myself.

Toluwanimi: So what are those things that turn you off?

Oris: I am turned off by people who think and say that “this is what it is, I can’t do anymore, I can’t go any further, things will never change”. That mentality or philosophy, I greatly dislike. Or the term “it’s meant to be this way, it’s meant to be”. I don’t believe that because with that mentality, we kill ourselves and the next generation. For a long time as a kid, I used to think something was wrong with me until I understood that it was people that were not willing to change.

Toluwanimi: What other talents do you have that the world doesn’t yet know about?

Oris: (laughs and laughs some more) Wow!

Toluwanimi: Yes…. I’ve heard that you’re a multitalented man, and I know that deep down there, there’s something that you’re planning to “unleash” on us in another year or so, to storm the world with and make us go “wow” – so let me in on that. Give me an exclusive on that.

Oris: I am a visioner……(pauses, sighs and pauses again)

Toluwanimi: (laughs) It’s deep, isn’t it?

Oris: Hmm…. I’ll try and answer that question as closely as possible (pauses again). I have a gift to know people, and I am going to use that gift to resurrect some things out of Africa.

Toluwanimi: You mean to touch people in ways that others cannot?

Oris: Yeah. And I am talking about using my work of film. I think that the world will see one of the greatest producers within the next year or two. Not just from me but also from my network of people who work for me. Again, I go back to what I said about being a visionary. I can visualise things that actually stun directors and producers.



Toluwanimi: You mean you have insight and foresight?

Oris: Yes. I have insight and foresight when it comes to films and how they should be brought to light. It’s a natural gift and that’s one of the reasons why I have taken the helm to embark on my own company. So it’s not from a selfish place but its place to move and shape things in the most profound ways. My life speaks for itself, which is beautiful because it’s from within. It’s something that you can’t pretend about. You can’t do that and I think that people will see that. It’s just a matter of me staying in tune with it and like you said, in the next year or two the world will be stunned in a way that will inspire them to move and shape things in their own right.



Toluwanimi: Excellent. I am sure that what you have to showcase will hit people in the right places and hit the right chords
Oris: I stand by that
Toluwanimi: Good, cos I’m going to hold you to that
Oris: Please do


Toluwanimi: Now on a lighter note, I hear that you make the hearts of girls skip some beats. What do you do to maintain such good looks
Oris: Well, there is a saying that what you eat is who you are. What you take in and how you see life is what defines you. I think that’s what makes women’s heart skip. I love women, I adore them. I also adore my mother, and I think that love for women is something that women are saying that they don’t see in men. It’s a different kind of love. It’s love from a place that I don’t care to look into and that I don’t worship or look at within myself. I think women are attracted to that. Most women could look at me from an angle of arrogance but when they spend an hour or so with me……


Toluwanimi: They get bowled over, man (laughs)
Oris: Yes……, and then they say “I’m so sorry but I’ve always thought you were arrogant but you know what….wow
Toluwanimi: (laughs). As you are bowling me over right now……
Oris: I am what women see in themselves or what a woman should see in herself if she’s not already seen that.


Toluwanimi: So if you’re all this, why are you not married – I’m correct to say that you’re not, aren’t I?
Oris: That’s the problem. If I marry now, I think that….. You can call me crazy but if I am to get married right now, I don’t know who would feel that way to give them that joy.


Toluwanimi: (Laughs out loud)
Oris: And I’ve seen it happen many times when I’ve been in relationships, I almost feel like Samson with the long hair.


Toluwanimi: Oh my goodness…. (laughs even more)
Oris: I’m scared and I have to find that security first. I’m gona have to find a woman like Michelle Obama, who’ll be able to say “Go ahead, honey, do what you’ve got to do. I’m watching. (Laughs). The reality is, I really, really have so much that needs to be accomplished and it’s important. I feel like I’m married to the world. Many years ago, my mum told me that the moment I go into the public eye. My life would change. I was very young then and was married, and she didn’t think that was a good move.


Toluwanimi: You were married then?
Oris: Yes. I married very young.


Toluwanimi: How old were you then
Oris: I was like 24/25. That was a pretty rough period in my life, and what my mum said made sense because as she pointed out, I’m a people person and people love me.


Toluwanimi: For how long were you married?
Oris: For a while but it was short-lived. The worst thing for an artiste or someone embarking on a mission is to tie himself to a sort of ball and chain relationship.


Toluwanimi: So there’s really no room….
Oris: There’s no room because it can really hurt that other person in one’s life and make her feel insecure. The worst thing that can happen to a man who is going through a difficult time is to be bogged down. It takes a special woman to stand back and say “He’s going through something right now. Maybe somebody out there or a critic said something. I’m going to let him fight this demon – which is really ourselves – himself”.


Toluwanimi: So you’re not looking at marriage at any time; it’s not going to happen, is it?
Oris: No. No marriage for me anytime soon.


Toluwanimi: But is there someone special in your life?
Oris: Well, honestly, no. There’s no one special. I think they’ve run when I’ve tried to do that because I’m a very intense and passionate person. I hate to say it but that shocks me because women are strong creatures. When I fall for certain women, I find that it’s either I am not ready for them or they are not ready for me. I don’t want to come from an ego place but I am yet to meet that solid woman- and I don’t mean a "king kong" type of woman but a woman who understands strength and suffering, one who understands what mum is.


Toluwanimi: A self-assured woman…..
Oris: Yeah – and mum these days doesn’t necessarily mean you have to have had a child.


Toluwanimi: A woman who can be all those things to you- lover, wife, etc....
Oris: Yeah. We know of some people for whom the women they set in their lives stood and struggled with them all the way. That’s my mum. My mum and dad are today until this very day. Most of the time it’s simple: women now come from a certain background and generation; certainly not my generation or yours. There are a lot of deep issues in their lives, and unfortunately, they’re looking for a teacher or a father figure. I’m sick of that, I don’t want that. I can barely be a father to my own little daughter because of my selfishness, because as artistes, we can be very selfish.

Toluwanimi: Speaking of your daughter, how old is she now?
O: My daughter will be eight this year (2010)


Toluwanimi: And how would you describe her?
Oris: (Pauses) First of all, may the readers forgive me, but I am striving to be a great dad. I’m really struggling with that. As I said earlier, we artistes can be very selfish, and sometimes we go on to do well by others and those that are ours struggle with that. The world sees one thing….. Have you noticed that at funerals people say so many good things about you but the people who are closest to you go, “hey, I didn’t know that”! (laughs). One thing I can say about my little girl, from the early stages, spending time with her, I discovered that she is a tough one. The reason for that is simple: she has a great mother. She’s a replica of her mother – very strong and I have to give her mum credit for an excellent work. She encourages me to have great dialogue with her, and it’s interesting because my daughter loves and appreciates that. I learn a lot from my daughter because although she’s eight, she has the wisdom of an 80 year old.


Toluwanimi: What’s her name?
Oris: Well….. I’d like to keep that.


Toluwanimi: I understand. Some things are meant to be private
Oris: It’s out of respect for her, really. One of the things I’m fighting for in society is that we need to respect the privacy of young people. My daughter may not want to be in the public eye or limelight simply because her daddy is. I wish she were here so that I could ask her permission. Until I have her consent, I can’t give her name.


Toluwanimi: I truly understand that. Oris, you’ve been described in many ways – as an actor, producer, director. You’re also a son, a father, a brother and an uncle. Which description strikes the deepest chord in you and why?
Oris: I think that I am more of a big brother because big brothers go through crap but do not want anyone else coming behind to go through those things. I have been through a lot and I am not saying that to incite pity. When we go through a lot in life, it’s wealth.


Toluwanimi: Yes. The school of hard knocks
Oris: Yes. I am the oldest of seven children and that makes me feel a sense of responsibility for them. I do that with friends and even with strangers. I sometimes talk to needy strangers like I’ve known them for years and it bowls then over. Big brothers do not complain, they just do what they have to do; they get on with it.


Toluwanimi: Thanks. Let’s talk about your work. Which are or areas of the entertainment industry gives you the greatest fulfilment.
Oris: I will have to say Acting because the older I get, the deeper it digs into my life. That’s frightening and beautiful at the same time because when I see a character, I see a story that comes to me dead but all of a sudden it comes alive as I apply myself to it. When I go out of character and you asked me to back there again, I couldn’t because for me, it’s almost like going into the spirit.


Toluwanimi: Like an experience that can’t be relived.
Oris: Acting gives me an opportunity to live my mirror image. I use my acting to reach out to people. A good actor does not go into a movie thinking about himself. A good actor, like a good leader, seeks to inspire, encourage and touch the hearts of people in that way.


Toluwanimi: Veering in a slightly different direction, tell us about your experience when you acted in a Nollywood Movie. How different was that experience from your other experiences?
Oris: Oh it was amazing because it gave me an experience that made me see Nollywood film making as an incredible process that will transform Africa. Nollywood is what it is: it’s beautiful even without the glitter and showman type of thing that Hollywood has.


Toluwanimi: In that case, would you be doing more of acting in Nollywood?
Oris: Yes, I would definitely make it a part of my curriculum as I move into the future. I would definitely want to lend myself and bring more attention to it. I want to bring more light to Nollywood and I see myself contributing to it even through my company, Myoho Films. The beauty of the Nigerian film industry is that there is always room for improvement. It is constantly evolving and the older it gets the better. It is like red wine, the more it ages, the sweeter. However, I would want to encourage us all to be patient with it because there’s more to come. Nollywood movie industry is doing phenomenal things and we ought to feel very proud of it and support it.


Toluwanimi: Who is your favourite Nigerian artiste and why?
Oris: There are lots of them and I love them all. It’s difficult to pick because they all have different strengths and personality and are all willing to keep learning. I am looking forward to working and sharing with them. As actors, actresses, producers and directors, we are constantly growing with each project.


Toluwanimi: What advice do you have for upcoming artistes in any area of the industry?
Oris: It is to fight to birth your vision no matter how small, big or stupid you think it is. No matter how much people criticise it, keep forging ahead, and keep working on it because when you look back many years from now, you’ll be happy that you didn’t listen to certain people.


Toluwanimi: If you had the chance to do something differently, what would it be?
Oris: After what I’ve been through, with a near death experience and other things, I don’t have any regrets whatsoever because all my life experiences, mistakes and faults are what define me. I have no regrets and lately I have begun to affirm myself constantly. I believe everything is for a reason.


Toluwanimi: Final question: are you Nigerian or British?
Oris: I am Nigerian. I was born in London but my soul is Nigerian because I spent a major part of my life there, and I remember every one of those years.


Toluwanimi: Any final words for our readers?

Oris: Yes. It’s Nigeria’s 50th anniversary this year. Let’s celebrate her and make her proud in everyway. Let’s show everyone how much we love life and let’s have a kind word or thought for those amongst us who are struggling and or in need




Toluwanimi: Thanks again and I do appreciate this time with you.

Hakeem Kae- Kazim

Hakeem Kae Kazim is a Nigerian born actor based in the United States of America. He was trained in the UK and came to prominence sharing the stage with acclaimed actors like Brian Cox in ‘King Lear’ and Sir Ian McKellan in “Richard III” for the Royal National Theatre. He made a successful transition to British television with leading roles in “Trial and Retribution”, “The Bill”, “Grange Hill”, “Ellington” and he distinguished himself in the title role of ‘”Julius Caesar” for the BBC.

Hakeem then settled in South Africa where his work in film and television gave him a huge following and made him a household name. It was while in South Africa that Hakeem gained international attention for his role in the Oscar nominated, critically acclaimed “Hotel Rwanda” with Don Cheadle.
Since moving to Los Angeles with his wife and 2 children, Hakeem has shared his talent with millions of viewers on “Lost”, “Pirates of the Caribbean 3″, where he played a pirate lord alongside such greats as Johnny Depp, Keira Knightley and Geoffrey Rush. Also in “Cane” with Jimmy Smits, “Law & Order: SVU” with Mariska Hargitay, “The Triangle” with Sam Neill and “The Librarian” with Gabrielle Anwar.

Hakeem is often recognized for his recurring role as Dubaki on “24’s” Season 7, and in the pre-quell movie “Redemption”. Both are currently being shown in the UK.
He is also in amazing movies like 'X-Men Origins - Wolverine', The Fourth Kind, and has a feature films coming out called 'Darfur'.


Interview with Hakeem

Marion: How was your day yesterday, I learnt that you had to celebrate Halloween?
Hakeem: Yes, Halloween has a significance for us because we came on Halloween Day to the United States four years ago. We got off the plane from South Africa and we came for the first time to the United States as a family so it was an awesome day for us, we went trick or treating and reminisce about that day.

Marion: Was it difficult for your kids to understand what Halloween was all about?
Hakeem: Yea, We had been flying for 24hrs and they were pretty exhausted. It was quite bizarre for them at first; starring from the window of our cab at all the monster costumes and I had to actually explain it to them.

Marion: How many kids do you have?
Hakeem: I have 2 little girls. Ayeesha Adedamola Abike is 10 and Shadha Iyabo is 6

Marion: How did you hear about the Nigerian Celebrity Network?
Hakeem: You guys found me actually and I went into your website and checked it out. It was actually funny because a few of us were actually thinking of starting something similar here in Los Angeles and when we checked online, It was great to find that there was something similar already out there and that there is a positive thinking out there already.

Marion: So do you like the whole concept of the Nigerian Celebrity Network?
Hakeem: Yea, I like the concept. I think that it is very important to portray a more positive image of Nigerians in the Diaspora and perhaps it will send a message to our government back home to improve things back home. We have a beautiful continent and country back home and I think that it is time to appreciate that and stop whipping ourselves up. We need to invest in our beautiful country instead of investing in the West when we have a beautiful continent back home that we should be investing in.

Marion: Am glad that we are on the same page about that.
Hakeem: Yes, you know what’s lovely as well is that there are a lot of us from Nigeria from our generation with this type of positive thinking out here in Hollywood and I think that it is very encouraging.

Marion: So you think that there is hope yet?
Hakeem: I hope there is hope. It is important for there to be hope. We need to start celebrating Nigeria more than just the popular things that we are accused of.

Marion: Am glad that people in Hollywood are thinking in the same light because a lot of people back home do not understand that there are some of us out here that are very concerned and taking the much needed steps to help portray Nigeria in a very positive image by taking a bold stand?
Hakeem: We need a government that can help create opportunities for our people and be a part of that positive image back home.

Marion: I know that you were in South Africa for a while. Can you tell us how your career started?
Hakeem: I was born in Nigeria and my parents moved to London to continue their studies, like a lot of Nigerians did back then and I went to college and attended drama school there to learn acting and after college, I did theatre for 3 or 4 years. My move to South Africa was completely by chance, Mandela had just been elected President and I went to South Africa for a friend’s wedding with the intention of staying for about 2 weeks. I ended up staying for about 3 months just enjoying the country’s new state of democracy and ended up doing a little commercial job and went back to the UK. I was later called to South Africa for another job and I was flown there thinking that I would be there for another two weeks shooting this commercial but surprisingly, the last commercial had been a huge success and when I got off the plane, there was this huge crowd waiting. I was really surprised ‘cos everyone knew this commercial and this started the new relationship with South Africa. I did not leave till about 4 years ago when I came to the United States.

Marion: If you could change one thing about the concept of the “Nigerian Celebrity Network”, what would that be?
Hakeem: Am not sure if I would want to change anything, I think it’s a wonderful idea but the main thing would be to make sure to maintain the prestige of the membership and perhaps include a broader group of people; like Africa.

Marion: We have thought about an African Celebrity Network but that would be too broad and perhaps too difficult to control the quality of membership since it would be somewhat difficult to keep track of all the celebrities that Africa has as a whole.
Hakeem: Exactly, I think Nigeria is a big place and there are many of us anyway so that might probably be difficult to maintain.

Marion:: Regarding the membership, we are doing our best to ensure that the quality is maintained and we do screen new members to make sure that they are who they say they are and that is why we have not reached a thousand membership yet. We do not make it easy for people to join the Network; that’s for sure. We have been criticized by some as being too strict about people joining but we make sure that all of our members are really deserving of that status of membership.
Hakeem: To me, I do not think that you should apologize for maintaining the quality and standard of the membership. Out here, there is A list, B list, D list and so on and for you to be on that A list, you must have done a particular type of thing to be deserving of it. So people should appreciate the standard of excellence which is what you are trying encourage.

Marion: Thank you and we do appreciate people like you, Raz Adoti, Adewale Akinnuoye-Agbaje and others out here stepping up to the plate and being proud to be openly acknowledged as Nigerians despite the “stigma” that is attached to that Name nowadays especially in the Diaspora. But you guys are taking a stand and we are appreciative of you all doing what you do to make Nigeria proud.
Hakeem: Of course, we are Nigerians by birth and we are a very proud, intelligent and forward thinking people.

Marion: Exactly my point. Seeing that you have some experience in the Acting industry, what advice would you give to those actors who are still trying to break into the American Movie industry?
Hakeem: The thing is to work as hard as you can and keep trying to get better and better and do not give up. Associate with people of like minds and you never know what that can lead to.

Marion: Do you agree that being at the right place at the right time might have something to do with success than actually working hard?
Hakeem: It’s a combination actually; opportunity and preparation together will get you far.

Marion: Can you share any odd experiences that you have had as an actor and how that helped make you a better person or a better actor?
Hakeem: Perhaps watching some of the A-lister that I have worked with keeping people at an arm’s length whereas some others respect you as an artist and have a wonderful and impressive humbleness about them.

Marion: Who is the most fascinating actor that you have worked with and why?
Hakeem: Probably Johnny Depp. He’s one of those people who is very down to earth and humble. “Pirates of the Caribbean” was my first major job here in the United States as an actor and I was deeply impressed. I love his ability as an actor to portray all these interesting characters.

Marion: Who would you consider your role model as an actor?
Hakeem: Sidney Portiere would definitely be one without a doubt in so many ways; just his struggle and his ability to maintain his dignity. Johnny Depp would also be one of them.

Marion: Do you act in Nigerian Movies?
Hakeem: Am always interested in doing the right Nollywood movies if the opportunity presents itself but the quality of the film making has to definitely improve

Marion: Which part of Nigeria are you from?
Hakeem: I was born in Lagos but my hometown is Abeokuta

Marion: Do you speak Yoruba?
Hakeem: Not really, am definitely learning it.

Marion: So that definitely rules out the possibility of you acting in Yoruba films.
Hakeem: Yea, for now.

Marion: When was the last time you were in Nigeria?
Hakeem: Last Christmas.

Marion: And before then?
Hakeem: A long time ago; about 15 years.

Marion: So, what was the experience like for you?
Hakeem: Oh, the last time I was in Nigeria, it was a chaos just coming out of the airport was chaotic, Lagos itself was chaos. But this time, things had improved in terms of a level of some order and that began at the airport. People were in orderly line to get their passport stamped and all. It was a very wonderful experience and a wonderful beginning; nothing like it used to be. The Lagos state governor is really trying to make things happen in a really positive way and that is the sort of people we need leading our country.

Marion: You are definitely right as I was opportune to go to Nigeria last December and I was amazed at the changes that had taken place in such a short amount of time and that I was overwhelmed by all the improvement that has been put in place so I am proud of all the Governor’s efforts.
Hakeem: Me too, God bless him and I hope he keeps it up, it makes me proud too; we can do it. We are a very resourceful people and we just need the right leaders in our country that don’t steal our money buying up treasures here and putting the money in a bank there, you know, it’s all common sense stuff and hopefully there’s a new generation of leaders that will make that happen.

Marion: Did you do any media publicity in Nigeria
Hakeem: No, not on this trip. It was the first time of going back after so many years and I went with my family. The next time I will do a little bit of that. I will be going to Nigeria again very soon to do a Jeta Amata movie sometime in November.

Marion: Can you tell us a little about growing up? Did you experience the corporal punishment that our Nigerian parents use as a corrective measure for their kids?
Hakeem: No, I was lucky in that regard, our punishment would be to stand in the corner and put our hands up, and that was the worse but they weren’t physical with us as such?

Marion: Do you think that worked in anyway?
Hakeem: I don’t agree with being physical with children. I have children have never been physical with them but to each their own.

Marion: The “KAE” in your name stands for?
Hakeem: When I was very young, I was called KAE for a while and it kind of stuck

Marion: How is married life?
Hakeem: Hey, married life is great actually, we’ve been married for 10 years now so it’s got better and better, but you have to work hard at it obviously but yea, am enjoying being married, I love my wife and she has sacrificed and been on this journey with me so am very lucky and very fortunate to have the sort of wife that I have.

Marion: Where did you meet her?
Hakeem: In South Africa; She’s South African and she we met there and she’s been on this journey with me ever since.

Marion: What is your conception of friendship and forgiveness?
Hakeem: Friendship is very important, a true friend is someone who will there for you and will support you in all that you do and those are obviously very hard to find but I think I have one or two of those, then my wife is one. Forgiveness is also very important and people make mistakes and I think that one has to be able to forgive

Marion: People say “I can forgive but not forget”, what do you say?
Hakeem: It’s a very female thing to say that, men forgive and move on to the next thing.

Marion: So are you trying to say that men are more forgiving than women?
Hakeem: No, I just think that in my case, I can forgive and move on.

Marion: Have you ever had to shut the door permanently on a friendship that meant a lot to you.
Hakeem: Probably when I was younger but I can’t think of any recently as it were. Probably because as you grow older, you have a family and that becomes the most important thing to you.

Marion: If you could be an animal, what would that be and why?
Hakeem: I would be a Panther because they’re very powerful and watchful, waiting and accessing and those are a very good combination to have?

Marion: If you could meet someone alive who would that be?
Hakeem: I think I would love to meet Sidney Portiere and Mohammed Ali.

Marion: If you could meet someone dead who would that be?
Hakeem: That would be Kwame Nkrumah

Marion: Are you a “Boxer” or a “Brief” man?
Hakeem: Am definitely a “Boxer” person

Marion: What is your horoscope?
Hakeem: I am Libra; actually I was born on Nigeria’s national independence day – October 1st

Marion: Do you think that you have what it takes for longevity in the acting industry as it is today?
Hakeem: I really hope so; I’ve been here for a long time and am here for the long haul and I do strive to be better and better at my work.

Marion: What is the price that you are willing to pay for stardom?
Hakeem: There is no price that I am willing to pay for stardom

Marion: What was the last movie that you saw?
Hakeem: I saw the movie called “PRECIOUS” and its coming out very soon and it stars Monique and going to be an Oscar nominated performance and it’s a wonderful piece of work. I was hugely impressed by it.

Marion: When was the last time that you did something incredibly stupid?
Hakeem: Yesterday, actually, coming home very early in the morning knowing that I had to get up this early to talk to you.

Marion: LOL, that was quite funny. Are you an avid reader?
Hakeem: I do enjoy reading yes, the last book I read was by a Nigeria called “I do not come to you by chance” by Adaobi Tricia Nwaubani

Marion: Do you eat Nigerian food at all.
Hakeem: Yes, my favorite meal is pounded yam and Egusi soup.

Marion: Do you like Amala?
Hakeem: I enjoy Amala too.

Marion: When was the last time that you did a household chore?
Hakeem: Oh, I have to do them every single day and I will be doing one when I get off the phone with you.

Marion: If you found out that your wife was going to be an “OCTO-MUM”, what would you do?
Hakeem: Eight kids at once, wow, I’d be on the first plane out of here.

Marion: Ha ha ha….
Hakeem: I love children but wouldn’t you be on the first plane out if it were you?

Marion: Ha ha ha … you can kiss goodbye to your acting career ‘cos you would trade that in for changing diapers, LOL.
Hakeem: Exactly

Marion: How do you react to female fans when they get out of line?
Hakeem: I have never had any get out of line. People can be intrusive and do not respect your personal space. It’s my wife that would be more upset if she is totally ignored but for me I’d deal with it.

Marion: If you could talk to Obama about any issue, what would it be?
Hakeem: That he should stay true to himself and do the job that he knows that he can do.

Marion: Is there a charitable cause that is true to your heart?
Hakeem: Street children would definitely be my focus

Marion: What acting work should we expect from you soon?
Hakeem: You can be on the lookout for my next film coming out on November the 5th directed by a Nigerian American, Olutunde Osunsanmi, he’s a wonderful Director and the movie is called “The Fourth Kind” starring Milla Jovovich. The trailer is available online so please go see it. It’s a wonderful movie.

Marion: Thanks Hakeem, It’s been nice talking to you and I appreciate your time this morning.
Hakeem: It’s a pleasure, am very pleased that there are people like you out there do this already while some of us are thinking about it. It is my pleasure to be a member of the Nigerian Celebrity Network.

Marion: Thanks again and I do appreciate this time with you.

My column in Dejavu International Magazine

Reality or Not…
The lure of a foreign land has always been a sub-conscious desire for many Nigerians, Africans and many nationals of other less privileged countries who have always thought that advanced countries were paved with gold and one could so easily pick up hard currencies on the streets.

In Nigeria, this craving or “craze” dates back to at least a couple decades; right after the “oil boom” era of our economic growth, when Nigeria plunged into an “oil doom” phase. Since that era, the country has struggled to keep at pace with its neighbors all around the world and with this, Nigerians have continuously sought succor abroad as a way out.

I recently had a flashback of an uncle of mine coming back for a first time visit to Nigeria after a 15 year sojourn in the USA and I remember how eager everyone was to see him. We looked forward to his visit with such enthusiasm and we went out of our way to cook and clean in anticipation.
This was in the early 1990s when only a few people were privileged to travel outside the shores of Nigeria and have the chance of a life time to experience what is so aptly called the “western culture”.

I never thought or imagined that the day would come when I would be on the other side. After all, I did not think I had any reason to believe that I needed to escape from the economic crisis that was fast becoming our lot as a nation. A nation where its graduates stayed home for at least 5 years in search of a job with little hope for the future.

The whole situation looked gloomy and hopeless from my perspective although I never showed that aspect. I went about like many other patriotic Nigerian who had a dream that someday soon, things would turn around for the better.

I was a home buddy for sure and never looked for any opportunity to run abroad like many people did. I always thought it was “naija for life”. Besides, no one I knew thought I had the silent desire like the rest of my people to go “pluck” foreign currency from the streets of a foreign land.

I always knew it would happen except I did not have any clue how? I remember telling people that I would never do an “all-nighter” at the American embassy or any other embassy, ever. I never quite understood why Nigerians would choose to show their desperation in such a manner. The chaos that unfolded in the morning with people fighting for a place in line to go in for their scheduled interview was just insane.

We had dropped off my aunt one evening because she had an interview the next morning and I remember shaking my head in absolute dismay because I just couldn’t comprehend why anyone would want to put themselves through any of that; first the mosquitoes from the canal, then the area boys, the sleepless night; to me that just did not make sense.

I remember vowing to my aunt right there that I would never put myself through this just to travel to America…..NEVER… and I never did. When the time came for me to join everyone else abroad I never did an “all-nighter”. I guess that was the power of positive thinking, faith or my sub-conscious way of calling on the universe and visualizing something and bringing it to existence except without the popular “vision board” associated with all that.

When the time came, it was magical; the way everything just fell into place was like a miracle unfolding right before my eyes. That made me a believer in “fate” or “destiny” or even “chance” whatever you choose to call it. It felt like perhaps those evil people shut their eyes for one minute and I quickly escaped or at least that was how I felt while boarding that plane.

I remember walking down the tarmac and feeling like that was it for me and I do not want to ever come back to Nigeria. The truth was I was done with 9ja for real but I guess one can only make their plans and God’s plan supersedes everything else. I did not ever think that NOSTALGIA would set in a few months after, especially as I began to miss all my popular Nigerian food like “mama put”, “suya”, roasted plantain ‘boli”, “ewa agayin”, “gbegiri” and “ewedu” with “amala”, “edi kaikong” and “afang soup”; oh boy! It was tough. I went through the craving and withdrawal, I mean the whole 9 YARDS, am sure you get the drift.

The isolation also drove me nuts since I have always loved socializing; working hard all week and partying hard all weekend. The problem with Yankee is that everyone is too busy working, working and working some more because unlike the life in Nigeria, they actually have a long list of bills to pay and are held responsible and accountable for default.
Besides their notorious “credit system” does not make it any easy for immigrants who are not used to paying their bills on time. There is no “come back today” or “come back tomorrow”.

The entire system is wired to rotate along the axis of the notion that “we trust you to make wise judgments and live up to your responsibilities” and unfortunately, the more money you make, the more you pay in bills and utilities. This system is so unlike that in Nigeria where it is “pay as you earn” – PAYE, except in this case, PAYE means one did not have to pay anything if they did not earn anything which further translated to “no income, no payment” – which was the case most of the time.

A person can “hang” with some friends or family members and leech off them until whenever; no one complained. People managed to survive against all odds and the more people, the merrier. You know the saying “misery loves company”; hardship can bind people together and make them a common denominator against suffering.

This is not the case in the USA; there is no leeching in fact it is very typical to see a family member throw out another in the cold for flimsy reasons. The threshold for tolerance is highly limited and people have a sense of independence. No one has the patience to tolerate a jobless relative because it was a simple case of numbers and the more people you have in your house, the more you pay in bills every month.

I am always amazed at the condition that we all live in and the insurmountable odds that we fight against to survive abroad yet so many would not trade it for returning back to Nigeria. It is insane and I know a lot of people are finding it very tough to survive and you dare not suggest they return back home.

I have had people tell me that they cannot trade their safety for anything especially in the wake of armed robbers, area boys, “one chance” and the likes. No one wants to give up their 24hr electricity for the unreliability of the Nigerian Electric Power Authority - NEPA; their transformer story or repetitive fuel scarcity.

The reality is that with the current economic situation abroad, many people are actually considering the option of relocating back home if the opportunity presented itself. I guess on the long run, it is all about the money and where it is. Perhaps the streets of Nigeria are now pave with gold and trees of cash that one can easily pluck.

There is yet hope for a brighter tomorrow for Nigeria and hopefully we can consider bringing back all the talents that we have left the shores of our country for an adventure abroad. It is probably time to flock back home and prove our patriotism. What can I say; necessity has always been the mother of invention.

Until next edition, I hope every one of our readers will stay safe so they can continue to support this magazine. We do work very hard to give you the best and know that you do appreciate it because we appreciate y’all.

Marion Amanambu-UKWU

Q: Who is Razaaq Adoti?
A: (Laughs) can’t you bring me in easy with like 'what's my favorite color or something?' Mmmm, I am someone who is very spiritual, honest, family oriented. My family takes priority over me in terms of my career and stuff. I feel real good when I know that I put a smile on my mum or dad’s face. I was raised as part of a large family and all that was instilled in me. I am also a fun loving joker; I am a very driven individual.

Q: Would you then describe yourself as a MAMA’s boy?
A: Yea, kind of. I guess I am on the one hand and then I shift between them depending on the situation. For me, in terms of my professional life, I am a little more concerned about making my dad proud and in my personal life; I like to make my mom proud.

Q: Ok, that’s interesting. Would you say that is a Nigerian thing since a lot of Nigerians that I know tend to see that as a cultural thing, you know with all the family stuff?”
A: Yea I would say so, I think so. You know both of my parents were born in Nigeria. My dad went to London for college and my mum came much younger, so I’d probably say in comparison to my western friends, Nigerians put a lot more focus on RESPECT and family values and I know it is a common trait throughout Africa and Asia. So I think it definitely has to do with how I was raised.

Q: Whoa, that’s pretty shocking ‘cos I don’t think that most people would ever think you are like that. Everything you just said is contrary to all my impressions about you.
A: Yea, don’t get it twisted man, I was raised real, whenever I caused any trouble I was “corrected…”

Q: You mean you were spanked…?
A: “Spanked” is a putting it lightly, it almost sounds cute; I was “whooped”, let’s keep it real…..

Q: I guess that makes the two of us because I know it’s a cultural thing for Africans (Nigerian), as a way of raising their children with discipline?
A:In looking back, I think I deserved every ass-whooping that I got because when I look at some of my friends now who still continued along that road and I see where they have ended up, I am happy for the way I was raised. It has helped make me who I am today.

Q: So, which part of Nigeria are you from?
A: I am from Lagos; a Lagosian proper. My dad is a proud Lagosian who was born and raised on the island (Campus), my mom too is from Lagos, her whole family is from Ikorodu. So it’s Yoruba all the way with me.

Q: Did you go to school in Nigeria at all?
A: Actually No, even though I was spiritually there from childhood, my education within Nigeria has been very recent and more on the street level probably in the last 10-15 yrs I have been going back and forth and I have been soaking up as much of the culture as I can. It re-energizes me and strengthens me – mind, body and soul when I go there and it gives me ‘reason’ when I come back to Los Angeles because it’s like - I have a definite purpose and I know that it’s bigger than me - and I say that humbly because am truly proud to be Nigerian and an African and I am someone who endeavors to represent us positively (when am over here in the USA) as it burns me to see us being mis-represented in virtually every arena.

Q: I think we both agree on that aspect of Nigeria’s image, which is why we started the Nigerian Celebrity Network and I believe that Nigeria need to be represented in a better way?
A: Absolutely!

Q: So going by what you’ve said, where is home for you nowadays since you do a lot of going back and forth between the USA and Nigeria
A: Home is a very fluid concept for me right now and that is because I am nowhere and am everywhere. I spend 2/3rds of my time in Los Angeles and 1/3rd of my time in Nigeria and London, not so much at all. I was raised in London and I have a lot of my family and friends I grew up and went to school with, I miss going to football games as much as I used to. For professional reasons, I'm here in the United States and for spiritual reasons, I like going back to my roots which is Nigeria. Sometimes, this capitalist and materialistic ideology can mess people up but it’s the connection with home that is most important ‘cos there’s a lot of disconnect out here. When I go home I like to stay with my family in Ikorodu and not in some Five Star hotel on the island ‘cos I can do that in any country. In Nigeria, I like to connect with my people and mingle, that's the point for me.

Q: If I gave you an elephant, where would you hide it?
A: (laughs), I would hide it in a Kenyan game reserve amongst the wild so that it can blend in.

Q: Interesting, If you could meet anyone dead or alive, who would it be and why?
A: Anyone dead would be JESUS CHRIST.

Q: And what would you ask him?
A: I would ask him for the TRUTH and I say that as a Muslim - even before choosing the prophet Mohammed (SAW). I would choose JESUS because there’s a lot more confusion surrounding HIM (his life and message) more than any other prophet or messenger of God.

Q: Ok, so what is the longest you have gone without a shower?
A: (laughs) I would have to bring my childhood into it. As a kid, I’d say 2 days at most is what I would get away with. As an adult, I wash twice daily.. I stays clean!

Q: If you were stranded on a desert island, what 3 things would you take with you?
A: If there’s electricity I would take my play station but in the absence I would say my Quran, my wife (even though am not married at the moment) and a friend or NO a box of matches or lighter to make fire...gotta eat right?

Q: Interesting combination Razaaq, you would want your woman by your side for those cold nights and company right?
A: Exactly, I would be fine with my choices. I’d have reading material for spiritual guidance for life, hot food and love. Perfect combination!

Q: What kinds of music would I catch you listening to on your IPod?
A: My music collection is pretty eclectic and it never used to be. When I was younger I was all about soul and Hip Hop like Stevie Wonder, Sam Cook, Otis, Jackson Five, Old school Hip hop but right now it’s a lot more diverse. A good 70 to 80% is Nigerian music because I have saturated myself with Nigerian Music. I listen to people like ASA, D’banj, MI, Ikechukwu, Banky W, Sasha, I'm a big Lagbaja fan, Olu Maintain, Eldee, Fela every one. I try to represent.

Q: Boxers or Briefs?
A: Boxers all the way! I have not worn briefs in years.

Q: Tell us one weird thing about you that people do not know about you?
A: I don't like my nipples being touched man…. It kills me and I don’t like it, it’s beyond irritating and it feels unnatural. I know it’s embarrassing to say but that’s true.

Q: (laughs) I wasn’t expecting that one. Do you have a lot of friends?
A: I have a small group of very good friends and then I have lots of acquaintances

Q: What TYPE of women do you like?
A: She has to be funny, sexy, and definitely smart. For me, she doesn’t have to have gone to school to get a degree. The best university in the world is life and for me - having common sense is more essential than being validated by an institution. I like a street smart girl and a big booty isn't gonna hurt.

Q: So you are a booty guy?
A: I like voluptuous woman and pretty faces... and she definitely has to be spiritual and believe in God it doesn’t matter the religion ‘cos there’s only ONE God. I can fluctuate between a stay at home kinda chick and someone who can go out there and act crazy so hopefully I can find a woman who will be able to fit into my wave length and have fun.

Q: Is there anyone at the moment?
A: Kinda.

Q: Anyone we know?
A: Am not gonna tell you anything more

Q: oohhh, there we go, am not gonna dig any deeper than you wanna tell but am sure there’s a lot of women out there who are wondering “what’s up with this guy, is he married, dating anyone or single”, so what you are saying is that you are not available?
A: mmm, what am saying is that my legal status at the moment is single...

Q: If you were an animal, which would you be?
A: I would go with a LION because the nature of the lion is their “pride” and family. My inner nature is all about family and I can’t wait to be married and have lots of children and my own pride.

Q: You talk a lot about marriage when is it going to happen for you ‘cos you seem like you are ready to do it like tomorrow, what’s up with that?
A: (laughs)I have no idea, actually my younger brother is getting married in a month and am getting pressure, left and right from the family because I'm older than him. To me marriage is a serious deal and I want to do it right.

Q: That’s understandable. Would you consider yourself successful?
A: YES I would because I'm happy; I'm blessed to be able to do that which I love. There’s a Chinese proverbs that says “The man who makes a living doing what he loves, never works a day in his life” and that is where I feel I'm at. I am truly blessed to have the opportunity to do what I do in my life with the support of a beautiful family. I am a happy man.

Q: How do you deal with success?
A: I guess I just take it in my stride. There's so much more I want to do that I wouldn't dare consider myself to have 'made it'. It's been a wonderful journey thus far but a new chapter is 'literally' being written in the form of my writing and producing which is new territory for me.

Q: What would you consider to be the downfall of being a celebrity?
A: (pause), mmm I don’t know, I don’t really have a downside, I'm cool and I haven’t had anyone be disrespectful and invade my privacy. Of ‘cos am not on the Brad Pitt level where people camp outside my door (laughs), so I don’t have a downside to it and I don’t have to deal with that but am sure that would be a pain.

Q: Don’t worry, am sure you’ll get there someday and I’ll ask you this very question again when you do, is that a deal?
A: Absolutely, Absolutely! We got a deal!

Q: What was your latest movie?
A: I currently have a movie in the can but I don’t know what the release date is yet. The last movie I was seen in is called COVER and it was released last year and was a great experience with a fantastic cast, I'm actually very proud of that movie. It starred myself, Vivica A. Fox, Aunjanue Ellis, Roger Guenuver Smith, Leon, Lou Gossett JR, Patti Labelle and was directed by the great Bill Duke. It was a stretch for me but this game is all about the challenges..how else will you grow, right?

Q: How would you compare Nigerian women to American women?
A: Nigerian women are the most beautiful women on planet earth!

Q: So do you think you will marry one and are you dating one at the moment?
A: (Laughs) Marry a Nigerian woman, hopefully, but you never know right!
Q: Do you have any Kids?
A: Kids? Not yet.

Q: How did you get into acting and did you get to where you are sooner or later than expected?
A: I enjoyed 3 classes in school; art- which included wood-work etc, PE and drama and it was a choice between the three. I wanted to become a footballer and I still think I'm the greatest player on the planet but the crazy people in the football world didn't agree with me, I don’t know why the hell not! Clearly, that didn't work out. So I went to college and later to a drama school and was blessed to get a role in a Steven Spielberg’s movie -Amistad for like 4 months, right out of drama school with Chiwetel Ejiofor and I’ve been a professional actor ever since. I have paid my dues; I have a good resume and am proud of it.

Q: Where would like to be in five years
A: I would like to be an Oscar winning writer, actor/producer for the movies I'm producing! I'd love to get the nod for best original screen play for “Sons of the Soil” – my upcoming movie. I have been telling other people’s stories for years, now I'm ready to tell my story and in doing so, I hope I make Africa, Nigeria and my parents proud.

Q: How did you get your role in “Hard Corp”?
A: I had previously worked with Van Damme earlier that year and he told me he liked me and would like to do a movie with me and I forgot about that until I got a call from my agent that Van Damme wanted me in his new movie, so we went to Canada and shot the movie and I had the chance to live out my dream as a boxer (I'm a frustrated boxer, footballer, singer..you name it). It was a great experience and I enjoyed every moment.

Q: How would you describe Van Damme in one word and Vivica A. Fox in another word?
A: Van Damme – Passionate or eccentric and Vivica – Foxy, I know it’s obvious but it is what it is.

Q: How do you feel about being a part of “Doom” – the Sci-Fi thriller that was one of the most popular video games to make to the big screen?
A: I'm very proud of that project. We shot that movie in Prague and when I got the role, I hadn’t played the game so when I got the part I played the game with a co-star and really got into it. It’s crazy but a lot of fun. I learnt a lot about handling weapons and military combat procedure as we had an ex-marine and SAS instructor train us through 'boot camp'.

Q: what actor would you like to star with; one living, one dead?
A: Dead, would be Marlon Brando, and living – Christopher Walken, Robert De Niro or Al Pacino

Q: Your favorite Nigerian Actor is?
A: I like a lot of them and they’re too numerous to mention. I also know a few so I don't want any drama!

Q: What do you think about Danny Glover and Forest Whitaker’s chieftaincy title in Igbo land (Nigeria)
A: I think that was great man. These men actually found out their roots and went to meet their people, get acquainted with the land and accept the honor of being titled.

Q: I always thought Forest looked Igbo and crazy enough I think Don Cheadle too is Igbo he just doesn’t know it yet, but that’s me and my crazy imagination. Would you consider a chieftaincy title in Igbo Land?
A: Definitely, that would be an honor. IGWE!!! (singing D’banj)

Q: If you hadn’t left Nigeria, do you think you would have achieved the level of fame that you presently have?
A: Mmmm, I have asked myself that same question. I don’t know if I would have wanted to be an actor if I was raised in Nigeria, I honestly don’t know. It’s a difficult and important question. I'm not saying that you cannot achieve what you want to in Nigeria but I think sometimes, opportunities in certain fields are more present elsewhere. I had a lot of exposure to the arts in the UK, outside of your family, the only black role models you could have were involved in sports or in movies, Nigeria doesn't have that problem, role models can be found in every sphere. That being said, access into less well known professions may not be as easy in Nigeria, look at the disappointment in the last Olympics' track and field event with Usain Bolt making his country, Jamaica proud. Can you genuinely tell me that there is no small pikin in Anambra, Ogun, Kaduna state or wherever who can't perform better with a little support, you get what I mean? Nigeria does not know how to nurture what it has and that is something we definitely have to work on. I might not have discovered any acting talent if I were in Nigeria, I would probably have been in a different profession, well...maybe.

Q: That is such a shame to know that everything has to be a struggle in Nigeria and there’s not enough resources available to nurture and encourage someone’s talent and give one a fair chance like America does. They back up their talents with needed resources to encourage growth. Look at the kids from the River Rine areas in Nigeria who can swim their behind off but would never make it any competition let alone, the Olympics. Let’s thank God for a place like America that can give someone like you the opportunity to spread your wings and be who you wanna?
A: Yes and one thing we can all be proud of is that it was all of us that made America what it is today. Without us coming here and building this country the way we built this country; and let’s not make no mistake about that; we built this country. America would be (no disrespect) an Australia or Canada and not the world power that it is today.

Q: What do you think about the entertainment industry in Nigeria today especially with Nollywood being the 3rd largest movie industry in the world after Hollywood and India’s Bollywood?
A: I'm just very proud about the whole entertainment industry in Nigeria. What we lack right now is the exposure. Our music industry is one of the best and people have not had the opportunity to experience its creativity and talent. People will be blown away at all the talents that Nigeria has. In Nigeria, actors can play whatever role but in America, for the most part, a black man is still stereo-typed to play a certain kind of role. It’s good to have that diversity in Nigerian movie industry and I know it’s just a matter of time until Nollywood competes at a major global festival as the expertise within the industry grows.

Q: I believe in that country so much and I think there is hope yet and that is why I do what I do because I'm very positive about everything and anything Nigerian and I would like to see us being portrayed better.
A: There’s a cross cultural thing happening now in the movie industry and we are about to blow up the world and people better watch out because they'll be amazed!

Q: Looking at Slum dog Millionaire; an Indian movie clearing the award categories at the Oscars, do you think a Nigerian Movies would ever be recognized by the academy?
A: Absolutely and absolutely, I'm making one now.

Q: Can you talk a little about your upcoming movie that is in-production at the moment?
A: Yea, it is inspired by my mother's journey and my own life. It's more like a coming home story about someone raised abroad then returning to Nigeria years later and having an intensive reality check and ultimately, education about the beauty of the land; and how much BS people are being taught and brain washed with overseas about the continent of Africa. It’s also a heist movie with crazy chases, romance, comedy, action, drama; it embraces about 4 to 5 different movie genres at the same time! Its nuts!! I'm a huge James Bond fan and that influence has definitely found its way into 'Sons'. I can't tell you how many times I've walked out of movie theatres before... mad about our portrayal in movies like “Blood Diamond”, “Tears of the sun” and “The last king of Scotland” and wondering why we are being presented like that. Don’t get me wrong, a story like "Hotel Rwanda" needs to be told but there needs to be a balance.

Q: That’s what I say about Oprah Winfrey’s portrayal of Nigerians on her show. As a broadcaster, it should be about balance and I did not see that on her show and it such a disappointment; amongst every 12, there’s always a Judas but what about the other 11, talk about them along side your negative portrayal and make it balanced.
A: You are absolutely right.

Q: Finally, what do you think of Nigerian Celebrity Network of which you are a member?
A: I am very proud of everything that you guys are doing to get more positive images out there about Nigeria and Africa and I am very proud to be a member. I am very happy that you have chosen me to be the celebrity of the month. I know NCN will grow from strength to strength and I would be happy to give you exclusives as time goes on. We are growing together and moving forward as one, when we stand together united, we are strong. Thank you for the consideration and opportunity to represent Nigeria.

Raz, thank you for accepting and we are very proud of you. Congratulations.

Make una follow me shout OLe o, Ole o , Ole oo... One day bushmeat don catch the Hunter!

Someone sent me this email and it is very appalling to discover that those people we trusted in leadership positions are the ones responsible for the abject poverty that Nigerians are living in today.

I mean we all knew they stole from us, but am sure we did not anticipate the figures in this attachment.

The song the rightfully comes to mind is that of Sound Sultan, featuring 2face & W4



I no get mouth sef. One day, one day monkey go go market, e no go return, my people. Make una leave am for God hand.

These men think that when they die, they will carry all these wealth to HELL and compete with the DEVIL himself. I am sure they are in for a very rude awakening when the get there.

I no say make una no chop o but if una dey chop make una dey do am with conscience abeg. This is not fair on my people.

I rest my case!

Marion Amanambu (BA, PGD, MBA)
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Interview with MFON "Freestyle" ESSIEN

Q: Freestyle can you please tell us a little bit about yourself?
A: Freestyle is Mfon Essien’s extroverted alter ego. A songwriter, producer, recording &performing artiste as well as an entrepreneur. The fifth born and second son in a family of 8, both parents inclusive.
Q: How did your career as a musician start?
A: It formally started out some years back when two friends of mine &I formed a group known as the “Trybesmen” where I was the youngest of the three. Prior to that time I had only been a keen listener &lover of music.
Q: How did you come about that nickname “freestyle?”
A: It actually should’ve been “Switch-style” because I was really good at mimicking styles and could sound like whoever I wanted, but I guess since I could also deliver impromptu renditions of rhythmic applied poetry without prior rehearsal, the name “Freestyle” eventually stuck!
Q: Why did tribesmen split from your former group “Trybesmen”?
A: Trybesmen in my opinion, split because there were conflicts, arising from irreconcilable differences, clash of egos and divergent perspectives and approach to handling issues.
Q: Do you still talk to your former group members – KB (Kunle Bello & Eldee)
A: Yes, I do. I maintain a high-level of cordial and professional relationship with them both.
Q: Is there any chance of the group ever coming together again?
A: Possibly, since the initial meeting-point for us was creativity, as far as making good music &making money is concerned, sure why not?
Q: How is your solo career going?
A: I have a lot to be grateful for, my debut album picked up the Hip-hop-world Best Rap album award, as well as several other awards; I enjoyed heavy rotation &general public acceptance from both radio and club circuits; I am also widely traveled and have had the privilege of performing both within and outside the shores of Nigeria.
Q: Do you have any regrets about being a member of Trybesmen
A: No, I don’t.
Q: Do you have any regrets about the group splitting?
A: No, I don’t.
Q: We know that you recently broke your relationship with a very popular girlfriend, what happened?
A: Irreconcilable issues.
Q: Are you dating anyone presently?
A: No I’m not.
Q: One of your former band member Eldee, got married recently, were you at the wedding?
A: Oh sure, had to give him all the support I could at the traditional wedding, but I missed the white wedding.
Q: Any plans to get married in the near future?
A: When I meet the right person, yes.
Q: What happened with the Tunde & Aboderin video shooting set?
A: I was misinformed by a member of my defunct management about the date of the shoot and had scheduled a performance outside Lagos and as such, I was not available for the shoot.
Q: Some people have described you as cocky; do you see yourself as such?
A: Freestyle is NOT cocky or arrogant; people just misinterpret my “self-confidence”.
Q: Why do you think people have a misconception about you?
A: Probably because I’m not one to hide my feelings on an issue, or because they have an inferior complex or maybe because most people are actually tribalistic towards me.
Q: What is going on in the world of Freestyle today; any projects?
A: My long awaited, highly anticipated sophomore album, “VirTuOSo… My Name Is Essien.”
Q: Which Nigerian artists have you done collaborations with?
A: On my first album, I worked with Tuface Idibia, Sound Sultan, C-mione, Sasha, Niyola, and Blasie. On this second I have tracks with 9ice,Wyre (from Kenya), W4, T-pain, Pype, Paulplay, Dagrin, Shank, etc.
Q: Which Nigerian Artists would you like to do a collaboration with if the opportunity came knocking?
A: Lemar and Tunde Baiyewu (Lighthouse family)
Q: How would you describe the Nigerian music industry as it stands today?
A: Dynamic.
Q: If the opportunity came would you like to explore the music industry abroad?
A: Yes, definitely. Apart from doing what I can to put Nigeria on the map, I’d believe I can compete very favorably against any of my foreign counterparts in diasporas.
Q: Would you encourage artists based overseas to come home or stay where they are?
A: Its better to come home and make an impact on their primary market. That way, they’re easier accepted by Nigerians everywhere and subsequently everyone else.
Q: If you could change one thing about your career, what would it be?
A: The record label under which I released my first album. It lacked the wherewithal to effectively springboard my career to the favorable altitude it should have attained.
Q: Tell us what we might catch you doing on an island if you were by yourself on an island?
A: Sleeping or thinking of how to get off that island as I get bored easily.
Q: You just finished a collabo with T-Pain, I mean how is that possible?
A: He produced the song, sent it to me via electronic mail; I recorded my part, finished it up and sent it back to him.
Q: What was the experience like and do you think it will open a lot of doors for the next generation of musicians
A: The experience was quite fulfilling for me and regarding opening doors, I believe so. The opportunity to have an international artiste like T-Pain, complimenting me on a song is proof that the Nigerian music industry does have a lot to offer in terms of talent and creativity.
Q: Name 5 Nigerian Musicians that you have great respect for (both old & new school)?
A: Tuface Idibia, Fela Anikulapo-Kuti, M.I, Asa and P-square.
Q: Any role models?
A: Yes, my older brother Emmanuel Essien and Sean Carter (Jay-Z)
Q: What do you think about the entertainment industry in the 21st Century especially with the worldwide economic crisis, any hopes?
A: Yes definitely, the entertainment industry does seem to be getting overcrowded but good music is still appreciated and is gradually being exportable and accepted the world over.
Q: Musician or Actor, which would you rather be and why?
A: Musician, because your musical compositions allow you to express yourself much more than interpreting a role from someone else’s script.
Q: DO you think acquiring an education is very vital to being a true artist?
A: Yes definitely, it would help your versatility and dexterity writing about your perspective on different subject matters and various fields. Also it would greatly improve your spoken grammar and fluency.
Q: What is the competition like for the Music Industry in Nigeria is?
A: The age-long, hydra-headed monster called “PIRACY”. It’ll take a while before artistes are commensurately compensated monetarily for the mechanical use of their intellectual property.
Q: Are you proud to be a Nigerian in the face of the 419 labeling of everything and everyone Nigerian?
A: Quite. I believe Nigerians are creative, talented and intelligent people and the fact that some people express these qualities negatively doesn’t mean I shouldn’t acknowledge the fact that the qualities are there and should be commended.
Q: What do you think of the Nigerian Celebrity Network Initiative?
A: It’s a great initiative since it not only promotes networking and highlights the recognized talents and individuals birthed by our great country, but it also brings provides a common platform for Nigerians to celebrate the diversity of our rich culture through entertainment.
Q: When I first met you, you were a budding entertainer, are you where you thought you would be now?
A: Being a greatly ambitious individual, I wouldn’t say I’m where I want to be yet, but I’m definitely not where I used to be.
Q: What world known super star would you rather be, if given a choice?
A: Sean Carter better known as Jay-Z. It would be such a trip for me to be that talented and have the whole world know that. Also to have a fiancée or wife like Beyonce is simply amazing. Her backside alone should be the 8th world wonder. They say, “The beautiful ones are not yet born...” that must have been when Beyonce’s mum was pregnant with her. I’d give anything to cross genes with her.

What is it with women and Designer Sunglasses

I believe women are more fashion conscious than men and am not saying men are not, am simply saying that if a poll were taken, we will discover that women care a lot about their appearance, maybe so as to attract the opposite sex and sometimes to boost their morale and self esteem.

Some women are obsessed with designer fashion and accessories and i believe i am one of those women. I don't know what it is but i will rather make a one time purchase of a fashion piece that i will feel good about wearing especially accessories. That is not to say however, that everything i own has to be a designer brand but there some things that i cannot make exception to.

Some people could get away with just walking into a store and purchasing a pair of sunglasses that look gorgeous and neat and expect that no one would notice. They believe that the ulterior need is for one to protect their eyes from the damaging effects of the sun ray and sometimes to enhance clearer vision (especially while driving).

Lame as it might sound, I am not one of those women. I cannot bring myself to wear a piece of sunglasses that does not have a name brand attached to it. I will not even catch myself thinking about anything less that class when it comes to accessorizing with sunglasses. I have quite an impressive collection of those and can't seem to stop myself from buying more. I give some away to family and some friends that i know will appreciate its value so that i can make room to buy another one.

What is it with women and "designer" sunglasses, i ask?

I am posting a picture of some of my favorites that i currently own or have owned in the past and am sure most of you will find them appealing. For those women who think a sunglasses should just perform its basic function and do not care if it is classy or not, i want you to think of this when next you are making a purchase. Like my husband would always say "if you buy cheap, you buy twice". Well, that's always his excuse when he is about to buy something that he knows i might not willingly go along and a darn good one at that.

I am now a believer that once you want to buy something that you will wear, it is always advisable to consider class, quality and durability and align that with "price" so that you do not go overboard. I mean some purchases in my book are quite outrageous and insane because i know there are plenty other uses that one could do with that money in today's society that would give one personal inner joy. Something as simple and easy as "giving" to the less privileged in the society can bring you so much joy and happiness.

But i would say "hey" if you can afford it, then go for it, "you only live once" and " you only have once to make an impact". Have fun while splurging a little but remember, do not go overboard with it because it then becomes an obsession and i do not advice one becomes obsessed with anything because we would consider that an addiction.

Am i addicted to sunglasses??......... or is it normal?.........

Meet Eligible Bachelor - PASCAL ATUMA

PASCAL ATUMA is Nollywood/Hollywood Film Maker. Producer of ONLY IN AMERICA, HURRICANE IN THE ROSE GARDEN, CAPITAL BLUES, MY AMERICAN NURSE 1 & 2 and NO MORE BLOODSHED (In production).

Pascal was born in Nigerian over 3 decades ago to a family of 7 children (4 boys & 3 girls). He moved to the United States of America in 1995 after attending Government college, Umuahia - Abia State (Nigeria) & University of Port Harcourt (Rivers State - Nigeria) where he tried his hands in Civil engineering before finally pursuing his calling - MOVIE MAKING.

His transition started with a stint in LIVE Theatre after graduating from KIM DAWSON ACTING COLLEGE - Dallas, TX in May 2002. He did not waste any time relocating to Hollywood the same month that he graduated from Acting School. It was not an easy road but with the divine help of a fellow Nigerian that had already made his mark in Hollywood, Pascal was able to quickly establish his grounds by studying his environment and mastering the GAME in Hollywood.

Under the tutelage of his mentor, MICHAEL AJAKWE JNR (Hollywood based Writer, Movie Director/Producer), Pascal blossomed into a creative and talented Professional that is able to own his own in the entertainment industry. Pascal is respected also amongst the Nigerian NOLLYWOOD industry as a visionary who is working unrelentless to bridge the gap and dichotomy between Nollywood & Hollywood.



Pascal Atuma is a very spiritual man whose strong Christian belief and background play a major part in his life and career.

Ladies, Pascal Atuma is very much single and available but believes strongly that his future wife will be someone who can hold their own in life. The person would have to be much grounded in their spiritual life and their relationship with GOD. He is not making any exceptions about that and it would be an added advantage if she can cook FUFU & variety of African soups to go with that.

He believes that he is a very good chef and says "my woman must know how to cook too".

He has worked with notable Hollywood actors like HAKEEM KAE KASSIM, ALOMA WRIGHT, TANGI MILLER, MICHAEL BLACKSON, ORIS ERHUERO, TANJAREEN MARTIN etc....

His recent movie MY AMERICAN NURSE was released into the North American Market (USA & Canada) on July 18th 2008 and quickly became the number 1 selling African Movie in the USA & Canada.


At many film festivals, Pascal Atuma has been constantly referred to by his colleagues as the TYLER PERRY OF AFRICA. If this is true, time will only tell but thIS TRUE "SON OF THE SOIL" has our strongly supports for his vision and creative mind and we knows that this young man will continue to do us proud.

Where is SANDRA ACHUM nowadays?

INTERVIEW WITH SANDRA ACHUMS

Marion: Sandra, how are you?

Sandra: Am fine thank you and you?

Marion: I’m doing great. Now I know we are very good friends but I do have a few questions that I am sure a lot of your fans out there would like to know about you. How do you feel about answering those questions?

Sandra: I would really love to answer them because it’s really been long now that I have been off the movie scene so whatever it is my fans want to know about me I think am really ready to let them know so you can shoot

Marion: Ok am gonna shoot, now the first question would be, How did you become an actor?

Sandra: It all started 1993 but before then I had an interest in acting because I was in the drama society in secondary school but after watching the movie Living in bondage and seeing the actors in action I picked more interest and knew that was what I would love to do and that’s how the interest developed and that opened my eyes to the movie industry in Nigeria at the time and made me aware of the existence of such a profession.

Marion: Would it be right for me to say that you always dreamt of becoming one?

Sandra: Maybe but not necessarily because back then I did not know about the existence of the movie industry in Nigeria, so I wouldn’t say I dreamt about it but I would say that I used to do lot of dancing and singing as a kid in school and I knew it was in me but I never knew there was an opportunity or its existence back then, remember we are talking of the beginning of Nollywood back when it wasn’t even known as Nollywood.

Marion: So growing up would you say you wanted to be an actor or was there another profession that you had a keen interest in?

Sandra: Yes actually, I really wanted to be a lawyer I always loved the challenges in law, all the argument and making my point and opinion in certain issues. Aside from that I am very business minded.

Marion: So was becoming an actor an accident?

Sandra: Not really, I knew I had it in me to act, it was something but I didn’t know it would be my first choice

Marion: In retrospect are there any fond memories that you have till date as a Nollywood actor?

Sandra: Yes, I’ve met a lot of interesting people and have had the opportunity to act alongside a lot of important, interesting and talented people in the industry. It offered me the opportunity to travel all over the world; meet new people and I’ve been to interesting places, being on different movie sets and played a lot of interesting characters that one would ordinarily not play in reality, so I would say I have my own fair share of fond memories that will last me a lifetime

Marion: That’s wonderful to know. Now where is Sandra Achums located nowadays and why?

Sandra: Well right now am in Germany, Nunberg to be precise, you know motherhood calls and I have to answer so I just took some time off to make a family which I believe every woman would love to do, so am in Germany with my kids and husband at the moment

Marion: What is life like outside Nigeria (what is it that people do not understand about living abroad), form your own perspective?

Sandra: It’s not really easy ‘cos it’s a whole new experience all together, you’re new to the weather, the people,the food, the language and everything in all respect and now u have to adapt to so many changes, its not really easy but I thank God that with the help of my husband, kids and a few good friends that I have made here I have been able to adjust

Marion: So do you love Germany?

Sandra: I wouldn’t say love bcos home is always the best the language barrier does not make it easy for one in my profession and when I have productions I have to deal with the dilemma of who will baby sit my kids. If I was back home, I’d still be active in the movie industry but everything is different in Germany, its just not the same and honestly I prefer it back home

Marion: Was it a good decision for you at the time to relocate to Germany or if you had the opportunity now would you change your mind?

Sandra: I would say it was a good choice because in our culture a woman has to move to stay with her husband and that was what happened in my case so I have no regrets at all ‘cos I believe that when duty calls you have to answer and be responsible besides, I can go home anytime I want to, but for now, am happy where I am.

Marion: Any plans to go back home?

Sandra: Probably, am still considering it but am still thinking about it. It’s not easy relocating after staying abroad all these while, one would have to re-adjust all over again in Nigeria.

Marion: What would it take to get you back home

Sandra: Nothing really, It depends on my husband and the agreement we have together after talking about it.

Marion: What is happening to your career? Should we expect something new from you soon or is that it or are you planning to branch into another genre of entertainment??

Sandra: Probably when I go back home, I will have so many things to do ‘cos it’s not easy for me here you know Germany is not an English speaking country so that will be the primary reason for my going back or relocating to an English speaking country …I might nit be fully into acting, perhaps I go into movie production or Directing or other aspect of the movie industry, I’ll be very active in the industry for real

Marion: You have two kids? What is the joy of motherhood like for you?

Sandra: It’s the best thing that can ever happen to any woman on earth because it is God’s desire for us as humans and I feel like I have done my path in keeping his mandate to “Go forth forth and multiply”? I feel totally fulfilled for God’s mercy in my life.

Marion: Any plans to have more kids?

Sandra: Aahh Marion, (speaking Yoruba) o sa fe ki n so ro yi sa (you want me to go there?). Yea, probably, YES

Marion: Like how many would you like to have?

Sandra: Maybe one or 2 more, you can’t really say, you might say three and end up with four so u cannot really say but u might end up with another one

Marion: Ok is there any chance that you are pregnant (of ‘cos your’s sincerely knew already, I just wanted her to go there, lol…)

Sandra: Eemm, yes, am expecting

Marion: You are? (laughing…)

Sandra: Yea, am expecting (laughing)

Marion: Okay, Congratulation

Sandra: I don’t think that pregnancy is something that you can really hide, so, yes am pregnant

Marion: Girl, you deserve the best, congratulation once again

Sandra: Thank you

Marion: A lot of people are not clear about your marital status, can you clear that once and for all?

Sandra: Eeeemmm, for me I would not like to make my marital affairs public because I once had a problem with my first and that has taught me to be private with such matters but as far as am concerned I don’t have a problem. it’s all ok, am good. As far as I know, my relationship with my husband and kids is great. There is no problem at all.

Marion: I will definitely respect your privacy considering what you have been through in the past especially with the media

Sandra: Thank you

Marion: What is your relationship like with your husband or should we address him as the father of your kids?

Sandra: He’s my husband, he’s the father of my kid, he’s my friend and he’s my everything all rolled up in one.

Marion: Tell us something about him that nobody else knows?

Sandra: Oh what can I say, he’s just too perfect, he’s gentle, and he’s caring. He’s just every woman’s dream man, really

Marion: I kinda knew you would say that but I would really like to know more and without being too inquisitive, we need to know what makes your relationship special, something that no one else knows about your relationship with him?

Sandra: We share a lot in common, he understands me and I feel like we complement each other

Marion: How do you deal with rumor mongers especially as it concerns your privacy?

Sandra: To be realistic, I don’t listen to them anymore and that’s one thing I love about my husband, a lot has been said about me that are false and my husband has come to know me and realize that people are always making up stories to cause problems and confusion in peoples’ marriages with false rumors and gossips. His eyes are wide open now and he knows not to believe everything that he reads because of the trust that we have been able to build with each other. So am not bothered about it nor do I have time to patronize such shallowness in some journalists or rumor mongers.

Marion: Are you of the opinion that you give up the right to a private life as a “celebrity”?

Sandra: It has always been like that but I think it is wrong because you only see celebrities in movies and you don’t really know them. You think you do but you don’t. Celebrities do need their privacy and journalists and rumor monger need to try to confirm stories before tarnishing our image. We are human beings too. People just enjoy sensationalism in the media and their voracious appetites have to be continually fed by junk magazines. People are always wondering what is going on in our lives, they do not even know anything about us other than what they read in magazines and people just go with it and I do not feel that it is right. Readers need to be more perceptive about stories that they read. There is a good side to celebrities especially in their private life other than scandals and who one is dating or not dating.

Marion: If you could re-write the story of your life, which part would you change and which would you not include?

Sandra: None, I believe in God so much and he said that before we were born he knew us. I believe that everything that has happened to me is all ordained and I wouldn’t wanna change anything. I do not blame God at all but rather I thank God for every blessing(s) that I have experienced in my life. I believe that sometimes certain things happen in your life to get you to a certain place in your journey and who are we to complain about it.

Marion: I know that families are a support system, what is your relationship with yours?

Sandra: Mine has been so wonderful. I am blessed to have a very close family with this kind of bond ever since I can remember. The kind of bond that one can only dream about. In everything that I have been through in my life, my family has been there for me as a solid rock. They have been very supportive and they guide and guard me through the rough path and help navigate me to the right direction. I look forward to building that in my present marriage and nuclear family.

Marion: Do you consider yourself a role model to upcoming actors in Nollywood?

Sandra: Well, I would say that I have played my own part and it all depends on the upcoming actor’s views and opinion of me. If they believe that I have paid my dues and they see me as such, then it’s all good by me and would be much honored to be seen in such a light.

Marion: I know you have a son and a daughter, what would be your reaction if they wanted to become actors?

Sandra: Nothing (laughs), I would love it but they will have to go into it the right way and be sure that it is what they want and really prepare them for what to expect. My parent gave me the opportunity to be what I wanted to be and do what I wanted to do. People saw actors as wayward and never get married but I believe I’ve proved them wrong When I started it was a different scenario, things have changed nowadays so I will encourage and advice them to play by the rules but they have my full support.

Marion: Who do you look up to in the acting industry in general and who are your role models in the world as it stands today?

Sandra: In Nigeria, I love Liz Benson in those days, I really like Joke & Olu Jacobs, I really think they’re very talented. Internationally, I love Mel Gibson, Danny de Vito, Denzel Washington and so many more. I like the way they have carried themselves through their entire career and are still relevant in the industry till date.

Marion: Your fans would like to see you grace their screen once again, when should they expect to see you?

Sandra: Maybe the next 2 years because my baby is due is due next year so I still have to wean my baby and when am strong enough I will come back

Marion: As an actor, does “motherhood” and “wifehood” interfere with a woman’s career and did it affect yours?

Sandra: Not really, my case was different because I was far from home (Nigeria). I remember that I shot movies while I was still pregnant and even while breast feeding back in Nigeria, so I do not think that is the case at all. For me it is more of environmental barriers, I was far away from Nollywood. That makes it next to impossible for me to do anything. You see, in acting, there is a role for every person, character and age so one can always fit in comfortable. Combining “motherhood” and “wifehood” with ones career in a foreign land put its toll on someone and I think that is what happened to me.

Marion: Can you compare the “old generation” Nollywood actors to the “young generation”?

Sandra: I believe that the young actors have it easy nowadays. Back then, it was very challenging and people did a lot to distinguish themselves and earn their right in the industry. Now there are more people willing to invest their money into a movie production than in the past so the new generation are enjoying better than we did back in the days

Marion: Talent wise, would you say the old generation actors were better or would you say that the new breed actors are more talented?

Sandra: Back in the day, one had to put their all into acting and one had to merit a part in a movie and because it was a new industry then, there were a lot of people chasing after very few positions and roles much like demand and supply. Back then, we would audition for a role with countless others so it was a stiff competition. We also had to rehearse to get our blockings and our lines and it was tough. Nowadays, I know that an artist can have 4 or 5 scripts and shoot all simultaneously within 2 weeks; it’s so much easier today. I know some will disagree with this point of view but I am an actress so I know what I am saying. For you to be an actor back then you had to be very very good at your game and sell the market but now it’s different, things have changed and it’s not the same. Then, we gave our all and we stood the test of time and the present generation would have to stand the test of time also.

Marion: What advice would you give the somewhat notorious ones in the Movie Industry?

Sandra: It all depends on the individual, if acting is your chosen career, fine but you have to be ready and understand the industry you’re in and understand the problems that are in the industry and the entire price you have to pay for fame, like giving up your privacy and being made a mockery of in the tabloids. If after a thorough search you think you cannot handle it, it is fine, It is not a do or die affair ‘cos there are other aspect like behind the scene - make up, camera handling etc, that you can do very well in. So they should understand what Is involved and what it take and when you are convince that it is what you want, you have to be prepared for the ups and downs that is involved. You have to be educated about the job and ready and the sky could be the limit If you persevere.

Marion: If you could trade place with someone else, who would it be?

Sandra: Nobody

Marion: Not even someone like Oprah Winfrey?

Sandra: Nobody, because I don’t know that person to say the least, I might say I wanna be like the outward appearance of that person but I do not know what they are going through in their personal life that you and I are not aware of. For me, am happy just being who I am and I am very comfortable in my own skin.

Marion: Am going to mention some names and I want you to describe them in one word:

TUFACE - Extraordinary

GENEVIEVE – Wonderful

OMOTOLA – Cool

BIMBO AKINTOLA - Cool

PETE EDOCHE – Awesome

JOKE SYLVA - Amazing

PASCAL ATUMA - Super

CHICO EJIRO - Cool

MARION – Fan…ta…bu…lous

(Both Laugh laugh laugh laugh……………)

Marion: Fantabulous? Na my own different?

Sandra: No babe you’re awesome, jokes apart.

Marion: Ok, I’ll take that and run with it (laugh laugh laugh). Now is there any other thing that you would like your fans to know?

Sandra: Actually I have plans to go into NGOs, it’s something I’ve always wanted to do and have a passion for a cause that is very dear to my heart would be, the MOTHERLESS BABIES, I would like to contribute my own quota to helping stabilize them and also help out other less privileged people in the society..

Marion: Awwwh, that’s really wonderful, I do wish you luck with it and pray you get all the support you need when the time comes.

Sandra: Thanks babe

Marion: And I wanna thank you for meeting with me in Frankfurt – Germany last December

Sandra: Oh that was awesome, unbelievable and I appreciate you a lot Marion. I hope we can do it again, the girl talk and heart to heart was fantastic, I haven’t had that in a long while. Thanks to you too.

Marion: Am sure we’ll do it again someday soon, perhaps this time we can meet in Switzerland with Jennifer Eliogu and have a blast.

Sandra: Yes oo, Game on (laugh….laugh….laugh……)

Marion: Thanks for your time babe.

Sandra: You’re welcome anytime my dear.